Happy Birthday, Uncle Nick! I hope Aunt Lynn has set aside some time for you to read all the wonderful messages from your family. After seeing them, I hope you realize, as I do, how incredibly loved, admired, and respected you are. You truly are an integral part of this family.
Now it’s my turn to share just how much you’ve meant to me. From the earliest memories I have, you’ve always been involved in my life, diving into my interests in swords and guns. Your enthusiasm fueled my childhood dreams, and I’ll always appreciate how you encouraged my wild booby-trapping ideas, funding them with those gas station knives you used to buy me (and sometimes still do).
I can’t forget all those cold winter trips to the West Desert, where we suffered through freezing temperatures just to go shooting, definitely not something many would agree to. Your willingness to endure discomfort and hard work for the sake of family has always set an incredible example for me. It not only got me out of some tough construction projects with my dad, but it also taught me the value of hard work and, more importantly, how to enjoy it. You’ve shown me that work can be fun if you make it fun, and it’s about the people around you, not just the activity you’re doing.
I’ve seen for many years you come home after a long and early day at the hospital, go for a run, cook dinner, shower (sometimes), and then head out to help your brother rebuild an engine, all while maintaining that infectious laugh and positive attitude. But it doesn’t just stop with physical hard work, your thirst for knowledge has always impressed me. You have kept learning and seeking answers even as a senior citizen, which speaks volumes about your intelligence.
The dedication you show, whether it’s producing a study, helping a family member research a medical condition, or the deep exploration of natural selection, you attack it with the utmost determination to find answers and understanding. I often think of this example in my own life, and it has driven me to want to be a lifelong learner as well.
You have always been a man of principle; once you believe in something, you stick to it. I have so much admiration for that. I think the overarching theme when talking about Nick Lonardo is that you are selfless. You want what’s best for your family and the ones you love, putting them before yourself. It is truly a rare quality to have, and although these qualities are just a few examples of the remarkable life you’ve led, they are what I strive to emulate in my own life.
I know you understand the significance of tribe, and as the old saying goes, it takes a village to raise a child. Well, you’ve been a crucial part of my village. You really helped in raising me, and I’ll always see you as a second father. I can’t tell you how lucky I feel to have you in my life and how profoundly your example has shaped my life in so many wonderful ways. I can’t imagine who I would be without your example in my life.
I love you, and I hope you have an amazing 62nd birthday! Please don’t start getting too senile now that you’re a grandpa!
Lorenzo Lonardo